
sorry to hear your friend is struggling. But glad you're there for her. it's great she feels she can come to you, and talk about this. Why does she think she can't take care of a baby? I think most women, even if they are married, or older, probably feel a bit overwhelmed when they find out they are pregnant. Expecting a new person in your world is of course a huge deal. Do you think she's open to adoption? Does she really want to have an abortion, or does she think it's her only option? Be there to support her, try asking her if she's open to adoption, maybe?